Thursday, January 25, 2007

friends vs. roomies

Some people are just better as friends than as roommates. That's just the way it is. It doesn't mean that one person is bad or that anyone has even done anything wrong. Some people jsut aren't compatible!!
I've had my share of roomates in my life, and only once has the situation ended on a bad note (and I swear it wasn't my fault!!). Sometimes you just have to take care of yourself, no matter what. At some point, there is no way to make anyone understand you or like you, and if it comes to the point of leaving a living situation to protect your mental (or physical) health, you just have to do it. Too bad if someone's feelings get hurt.

After glendale, i said that i would never have a roomate again (living with 4 female musicians AND a samba band under bed was enough for me, although i dearly love all of them.). And yet, i find myself working through the same bs as i thought i never would see again. It seems like every time i say "never" in my life, something happens which makes me go back on that word and learn more about myself.

I just really hope this doesn't end in disaster.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for writing this.